In reply Jesus declared, “I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again.
Nicodemus came to the Messiah after dark. He was a learned Torah teacher,. but could not understand what Jesus was saying. How can a man be born again, born twice? You simply have to let God Almighty give you a re-birth, Jesus explained. This kind of birth can not be given by man, or decided by man. You have to be re-birthed from above, born by The Spirit of God.